Tuesday, March 31, 2020

New Normal

These are uncertain and scary times. The world is facing a pandemic, the likes of which most of us have never seen before. There have been other epidemics earlier in the 21st century but none of them had the same global impact as COVID-19. Many countries have implemented lockdowns and quarantines to slow down the spread of the SARS-CoV-2 virus. The Philippines also implemented a Luzon-wide Enhanced Community Quarantine (ECQ) in mid-March that limits the movement of people.

As of March 31, more than 750,000 people all over the world have been infected and more than 36,000 people have died from the virus. In the Philippines, more than 2000 have been infected so far and 88 have died. What makes this epidemic very difficult to manage is that there is no cure nor vaccine yet. While healthy people can survive an infection, senior citizens and immunocompromised people are extremely vulnerable to the virus. The high volume of patients means that hospitals are now struggling to accommodate people who are or may be infected. This truly is an extremely difficult and even desperate time.

The Philippines and other developing countries are even more negatively impacted. The ECQ has forced most businesses to implement work-from-home if they can or temporarily shut down operations if they can't. This means that many people are unable to work and are now struggling financially. Some essential services such as markets, supermarkets, drugstores, food providers, and banks are allowed to remain open. However, because public transportation has been suspended, people who need to move around, such as healthcare workers or people who need to go to the hospital, have great difficulty doing so.

While social distancing is important to flatten the curve, it has also exposed socioeconomic issues. The affluent, and to some degree even the middle class, are able to manage (some better than others). I am very fortunate to be in this category. Many of us work in companies that still pay us regular salaries and provide us the option to work-from-home, we have vehicles that allow us to travel without having to interact with others, we have the means to buy lots of supplies and medicine so that we don't need to go out of our homes too much, and we have enough funds to keep us afloat throughout the quarantine. Sadly, the same cannot be said for our underprivileged countrymen and women who are now grappling with fear and hunger. I cannot even begin to imagine how frightened, anxious, stressed, and hungry they must be. :(

This pandemic and the global crisis that has come with it has left me very heartbroken: for the people who have succumbed to this COVID-19 or are fighting it right now, for the healthcare workers who are overworked and who risk getting infected themselves, for the underprivileged who have no work, no money, and no means to buy food and essentials, for those who are dealing with anxiety and depression, and for everyone else impacted by this disease. At this point, I feel the only thing I can do is donate to relief efforts and pray. I just hope that a cure and a vaccine can be found soon.

Tuesday, March 10, 2020

Happy 15th Anniversary!

It started out in 2005 on a whim. 15 years and 1,725 posts later, my blog is still alive. Happy Anniversary!

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I'm in a bit of disbelief at how I've stayed committed to this project and kept on writing for a decade and a half. I just did the math and I'm averaging 115 posts per year or almost 10 posts a month. Where did I find the time to do all this? LOL

Here are my most viewed posts:
Brunei: Travel tips and Suggested Itinerary
Segovia's Cakes and Recipes
LABArya Do It Yourself Laundry
Conti's Strawberry Shortcake
A fantasic family dinner in La Cocina de Tita Moning

And this continues to be my favorite post: Photo finishes at the train station - part 2. I also still find my snowy slip-up in this post pretty funny: [SWEDEN] Where the hell is Frosty?

I updated the list of all my travel posts that I wrote in my 10th year anniversary post. I have now added links to my travel posts after March 2015.


International travel

SOUTH AMERICA
My South America Trip Summary and Final Thoughts, South America Trip of a Lifetime, Prepping for our South America Trip, South American Wildlife, South American Food and Drinks, Challenges before and during our South America Trip, Condor Travel, Journeyou, and Going on a Tour versus DIY
PERU
Machu Picchu!, Aguas Calientes and Getting to Machu PicchuCusco, Sacred Valley, Inkaterra Hacienda Urubamba, Lima, Casa Qorikancha in Cusco, Tunupa in Sacred Valley, Inkaterra Machu Picchu Pueblo Hotel, Palacio Del Inka Hotel in Cusco,
BRAZIL
Rio de Janeiro, Iguassu/Iguazu Falls
ARGENTINA
Perito Moreno Glacier!, Buenos AiresEl Calafate and Patagonia, Museo Del Filete in Buenos Aires, Casimiro Bigua in El Calafate, Loi Suites Iguazu Hotel, Hotel Kosten Aike in El Calafate
RUSSIA
Overview, Kremlin and Red Square, more Moscow sights, Moscow Metro, Sergiev Posad, Vladimir and Suzdal, Peter and Paul Fortress, St. Petersburg walking tour, the Hermitage, palaces around St. Petersburg, more St. Petersburg sights, Russian ballet, final thoughts, navigating the Moscow Metro, Travel tips
ICELAND
Summer holiday in Iceland and Austria, Blue Lagoon and Hallgrímskirkja, Glacier Lagoon, whale-watching in Reykjavik, the Golden Circle, Dettifoss and the Jewels of the North tour, last day in Iceland + suggested itinerary
TOUR OF NORWAY AND SWEDEN
Overview, Oslo, Norway in a Nutshell, Bergen, Stockholm
BRUNEI
Overview, Sultan Omar Ali Saifuddin and ame'asr Hassanil Bolkiah Mosques, Empire Hotel and Country Club, Kampong Ayer and Royal Regalia Museum, Travel tips and suggested itinerary, final thoughts
SWITZERLAND
Lucerne landmarks, walking around Lucerne, Locarno and the canton of Ticino
SOUTH KOREA
2011: Overview, Seoul, Incheon, travel tips and final thoughts
2019: Return to Seoul, Seoul City Tour and the Gyeongbokgung Palace, Seoul Food, DMZ Spy Tour, Nami Island and the Garden of Morning Calm, U2: The Joshua Tree Tour in Seoul
AUSTRIA
Summer holiday in Iceland and Austria, Overview, Vienna, Salzburg, Sound of Music tour, Final thoughts and travel tips
LEGOLAND AND SINGAPORE
Overview, Legoland Malaysia, Universal Studios Singapore (part 2), Final thoughts
FAMILY TRIP TO SINGAPORE
Overview, Universal Studios Singapore, Singapore Zoo, Suntec City, and the Merlion, Marina Bay Sands
AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS
Overview, Amsterdam sights, other Amsterdam experiences, final thought
DENMARK
Copenhagen, more on Copenhagen, sights surrounding Copenhagen
LUND AND MALMO, SWEDEN
Lund, Malmo sights, more Malmo sights
OTHER INTERNATIONAL TRAVEL
Hong Kong Disneyland, Macau, Brazil, Bali, Bangkok
BELGIUM
Belgium, living in Brussels 1, living in Brussels 2, Ghent, Bruges

I also have almost 30 posts about my life in Lund, Sweden from January to June 2007. There are too many posts to share them all here so you can look through my 2007 posts to find them. 

Local travel

SAGADA
Overview, Sumaguing Cave, Hanging coffins and other Sagada sights, Sagada terraces and falls, Banaue Rice Terraces, final thoughts and tips
KALIBO
Visiting Kalibo for Ati-Atihan, Sadsad, Sunday Mass and Final Day Festivities, Primavera, Peil, Ramboy's, La Esperanza Hotel, Final Thoughts and Travel Tips
BORACAY
Boracay, La Cozina, Lemoni Cafe, Epic, Cafe Del Sol, Don Vito, Boracay Mandarin Island Hotel 
BATANES 
Trip 1: Overview, Basco, Sabtang Island, more of Basco, Travel tips and final thoughts
Trip 2: Revisiting, Basco highlights, new sights and experiences, changes since 2012, final thoughts and more travel tips
KALINGA
Overview, White water rafting, Shooting and rappelling, more Kalinga experiences, Travel tips and final thoughts
CEBU AND BOHOL
Cebu, Bohol, Bohol Bee Farm 
BACOLOD
2015: Bacolod, The Ruins, 21 Restaurant, Ading's Pala-Pala, Calea, Felicia's, Byron's
2017: Revisiting Bacolod, Lakawon and the Tawhai Floating Bar
TAGAYTAYTito Tito's Wedding, Visiting Taal, Nanay's birthday
Food Trip 1: Restaurant Verbena, Sonya's Garden, Bag of Beans, Buon Giorno, Chateau Hestia
Food Trip 2: Breakfast at Antonio's, Chine, Mano's Greek Taverna, Java Jazz Coffee
Food trip 3: Amoroma Ristorante Italiano, Morielli's
Airbnb find in Tagaytay: Casa dlF 
PANGASINAN
Puerto Del Sol, Hundred Islands
DUMAGUETE 
Dumaguete, Sans Rival in Dumaguete
DAVAO
Davao, S'mores from Kai Artisan
SUBIC
Subic weekend, Texas Joe's House of Ribs, Rachi Curry Corner
OTHER LOCAL TRAVEL
Intramuros, Corregidor, Cagayan De Oro (this proves I didn't use to include photos), Coron, Baguio, Club Balai Isabel, Sinagtala Resort in Orani, Bataan

Friday, February 28, 2020

Making a Difference

I recently had one of the most moving conversations that left me humbled and inspired.

My friend who also used to be my direct report told me that I changed his life. In one of our one-on-one conversations many years ago, it seems I helped him realize his potential and believe in himself more than he did at the time. He told me that this allowed him to take a huge and even frightening leap in his career, a move that would very positively impact his life. While I'm sure he would have realized how good he was by himself, I am filled with joy to know that I helped him in his journey.

I still get a bit emotional when I think of that conversation. When I decided to become a people manager in my previous job, I believed I could make strong contributions to the company I was working for. Making this much of a difference in someone's life, however, is not something I imagined I would ever be able to do.

Tuesday, February 25, 2020

Wedding Weekend

We're only two months into the new year but I have now attended four weddings! Just this last weekend, I attended two weddings. Thankfully, they were scheduled on different days so I was able to attend both. On Saturday, Gian and Blessy got married in St. Michael the Archangel Parish near Uptown Mall in BGC. It was my first time in this church and I love how bright and airy it is. Arguably the most memorable moment during the ceremony was the bridal march, when Blessy sang a few bars of a beautiful love song while walking down the aisle. Awesome! The dinner reception was at Bonifacio Hall in Shangri-La at the Fort. The ballroom decor was absolutely stunning, with gorgeous lights draped elegantly from the ceiling.


The introduction of the entourage and the couple was also really cool, with all of them performing a dance number that was well-rehearsed and well-choreographed. I actually found it very entertaining. :) The first dance of Blessy and Gian was even more amazing, as it included a very romantic lift and an exquisite dip that I believe ended with a kiss.


Gian was my teammate in my previous job so a lot of our ex-colleagues were also there, making it a fantastic reunion. As this was Shangri-La at the Fort, the food was sublime, including the desserts: tiramisu in a chocolate cup and a mille-feuille. I planned to leave once the program was over but Gian asked me to stay so I did. I ended up leaving once the party was over, which was after midnight. It was a truly memorable night.


The next day, I attended the wedding of Pao and Therese. The church ceremony was held at the Manila Cathedral in Intramuros. It's been a while since I had been here so it was a welcome return for me. However, I woke up late that morning and thought I was going to be late for the wedding which was supposed to start at 1pm. Thankfully, the time indicated at the invitation was padded; the ceremony actually started at 1:30pm so I ended up being quite early. Cool!


The reception was held at Casa Ibarra near Mall of Asia. Both Pao and Therese are ex-colleagues so for the second night in a row, it was like I was attending a massive reunion. The program started quite early (I assume it was because the wedding was on a Sunday and there was work the next day) with the entourage being introduced at maybe around 530pm. The emcee started with a game that would prioritize the tables for the buffet dinner. Only one person per table would compete and I realized later on that I should've volunteered to participate because the game was "Name that tune"  with a twist; after guessing the title of the song, you had to dance to it. I knew almost all the songs and their dances so if I participated, our table could've been one of the first 2 to 3 to hit the buffet tables LOL. Nevertheless, because I was catching up with so many people and because dinner was served quite early, there was no rush to eat. :) Oh and another memorable moment from this wedding was the rock star entry of the newlyweds: they entered the venue with microphones in hand and sang Cruisin'. So cool!


The program ended at around 8pm and while I planned to leave immediately after the program (it was a full weekend so I was tired), it was so much fun catching up with many of my friends that I ended up staying an extra hour and leaving at 9pm. The great thing about weddings is that you celebrate one of the most special days that two people will ever have and you get to reunite with many of your friends and/or relatives.

Tuesday, February 11, 2020

Parasite

Congratulations to Parasite for winning four awards at the Oscars, including Best Picture, Best Director for Bong Joon-Ho, Best Original Screenplay, and Best International Feature Film. It is the first time that a non-English film won the top prize at the Academy Awards. Prior to its Oscar success, this South Korean movie also became the first non-English language movie to win Outstanding Performance by a Cast in a Motion Picture at the SAG Awards. Amazing!


I made sure to watch Parasite immediately after its Oscar triumph, primarily because I knew there was a major twist in this movie and I was worried that I would be spoiled if I didn't see it immediately. (True enough, a few days after I saw it, a radio DJ actually spoiled it on air.)

SPOILER ALERT: I will be sharing some details about the movie so please stop reading now if you don't want to be spoiled.

The great thing about Parasite is how unconventional it is. The story revolves around the Kim family who con their way into high-paying jobs for the Parks, a tremendously wealthy family. After Ki-woo gets a job as an English teacher for the Parks, he sees an opportunity for the rest of his family to find employment at their household. As this was all unfolding, you just knew that at some point, their scam would be exposed. This tension made for very exciting viewing. The truth came out midway through the film but not in the way that I thought it would. This twist that people were talking about was truly unexpected and the frantic chaos that ensued when the Kim family tried to protect themselves from exposure was gripping. It is at this point that the mood drastically changes. Issues of social inequality, while treated lightly in the first half of the movie, become significantly stronger in this second half. The climax of the the film is wild, intense, and harrowing while the denouement is, once again, unexpected and very powerful.

To be honest, when I left the cinema, I wasn't sure how I felt about the movie, mainly because it was so heavy that I actually felt quite disturbed by how all the events unfolded. However, when I had a bit more time to process it, I realized how good Parasite is because it left me with a lot of uneasiness and discomfort and it weighed on me for a while. Only really good films can do that to its audiences. If you haven't seen Parasite yet, please do. It is highly recommended.

Friday, January 31, 2020

FOO'd by Davide Oldani

This is a really late post but it was a special celebration so I felt I should still write about it. When my friend Michele celebrated her birthday, she decided to take us to FOO'd by Davide Oldani, which is one of her favorite restaurants. I had never eaten there before so I was looking forward to our dinner here. Upon arriving, we were served bread and cheese cream and it was really good.


Food is ordered by selecting one of the three tasting menus: 3-course, 4-course, and 5-course. I believe all of us chose the 4-course tasting menu which consists of 1 Antipasto, 1 Primo, 1 Secondo, and 1 Dolce. For my antipasto, I selected the Iberico Pork and Scallop, which is a scallop appetizer served with Iberico pork and a green pea puree.


For my primo, I chose the Riso Marsala, with 18-month aged Carnaroli (a type of rice), black pepper, breadcrumbs, and Marsala sauce.


I had the 36 Hour Shortrib for my secondo. This dish is US Angus Prime Shortib served with creamy polenta and mushroom ragout.


Finally, for dolce, I chose the White Chocolate Souffle served with apricots, almond biscotti, and amaretto gelato.


Everyone in our table decided to share desserts with each other. I gotta say, all the desserts are plated exceptionally well. This Dark Chocolate Mousse with Cacao Crumble, Raspberry, and Dark Chocolate Gelato looks really mouthwatering...


...as does this Lemon Curd, which is a Dehydrated Lemon Meringue with Cacao Crumble, Curry Almonds, and Lettuce Gelato. While I do love chocolate and I really enjoyed the dark chocolate mousse, I think this lemon curd dessert was my favorite because it was really inventive and delicious.


Since FOO'd is a fine-dining restaurant, it's definitely not cheap but the food is superb, the ambience is elegant and tasteful yet cozy and comfortable, and the service is great. I may need to save up for another visit to this place.

FOO'd by Davide Oldani
https://www.facebook.com/pages/FOOD-by-Davide-Oldani-Shangri-La-at-the-Fort/670327909842873
Address: Shangri-La Hotel at the Fort, 30th St cor, 5th Ave, Fort Bonifacio, Taguig, Metro Manila
Phone: 0917 711 4469

Tuesday, January 28, 2020

Wedding Ninong for the 3rd and 4th times

I became a wedding ninong (or principal sponsor) for the first time in 2017. It happened a second time in 2018. Then all of a sudden, in a span of just a week, I became a wedding ninong again for the 3rd and 4th times!


Interestingly enough, both weddings were out-of-town. Mon and Chelle got married first at Palazzo Venezia in Malolos, Bulacan. Both of them were my direct reports at the time that I left my previous job so a lot of our other teammates were also there, making it a reunion. I was quite happy that Chelle and Mon asked the male guests to come in Barong Tagalogs because I really miss wearing the national dress of the Philippines.


A first for me: I had to give a principal sponsor speech. When I met up with Mon and Chelle for lunch a few weeks before their wedding, they asked me if I could give a speech. They said that of all their principal sponsors, I was the one who knew both of them the most. I decided my speech would focus on what qualities both of them had that would ensure their marriage would shine and last through the ages. Their ninong gift to me was also a first: cheese bread and sylvannas from L.A. Bakeshop (among a few other things). Apparently, L.A. Bakeshop is a very popular bakery in Pampanga so I'm happy I got to try this.


Six days later, I found myself in San Fernando, Pampanga for the wedding of Migs and Diann at the Country Garden. Both of them reported to me in my previous role (the one I had right before I became Chelle and Mon's boss). As such, their wedding also turned into a pretty awesome reunion.


There was a bit of a scare for me though right before the wedding. For some reason, I thought the ceremony would also start at 4pm. I decided I would leave Metro Manila at around 1:30 pm so that I could get to the venue at around 3 to 3:30 and I would have enough time to get settled before the wedding. However, when I checked the invitation at around 11:30am, I realized that the wedding was at 3pm! I started to panic because I was at risk of being late (which would be a disaster because I was a principal sponsor). I ended up skipping lunch to help ensure I would get to the venue on time. As it turned out, I still arrived a few minutes after 3pm and I was worried that the ceremony would have already started. Thankfully, it hadn't. In fact, it actually started at around 4:30pm (it was really hot that afternoon so the coordinators decided to start the ceremony later in the day so that the sun wouldn't be so high up in the sky). That made me wish I had at least a quick lunch somewhere along the way LOL. I did make up for my missed meal by overeating during dinner. :)


Another first: I was asked to give a speech on the spot! Apparently, the principal sponsors who were supposed to share some words of wisdom to the newlyweds didn't make it. The coordinator ended up asking me and my ninang partner Maan (who took over as their manager when I changed roles) to give the speeches instead. I didn't want to say the same stuff I told Mon and Chelle LOL so I just did the best I could under the very last-minute circumstances.


As such, I am now a four-time wedding principal sponsor. I don't know how many more times I will be asked to be one but hopefully, I will be able to fulfill the duties and responsibilities of a ninong to all my current wedding godchildren. :)

Sunday, January 26, 2020

Reunion Season

December and January are always filled with reunions and I'm fortunate to have had more than my fair share of them. The most significant one was also the most recent: I had lunch with my Grade 2 adviser, Mrs. Ontiveros, who is the best and most influential teacher I've ever had. I hadn't seen her in decades and while we talked about meeting up a couple of times, we never got around to finalizing a date. That is, until early this year. I asked if she was free one weekend, she said she was, and the date was set. I asked her if she wanted to see my family - she knows them and my brother was also her student - and she said she was actually about to ask me if I could invite them to our lunch date as well. Cool! We agreed to meet in Aristocrat Banawe and my mom and my brother were free to join. We enjoyed each other's company for many hours as there were so many stories to share. It was such an amazing, nostalgic, and soul-stirring reunion and I am so happy that we finally managed to catch up.


I also got to have coffee and dinner with Chachie right before Christmas. I think the last time I saw her was more than five years ago when we played board games in Ludo Cafe so it was great to see her. She's been through quite a bit over the last few years but she has maintained such a positive outlook in life which I find to be very inspirational. I got to meet her daughter for the first time and I also saw her husband whom I haven't seen since maybe their wedding. We hung out from the late afternoon until the early evening, when their family had to go to catch the evening mass. We met at Tyler's Cafe along Katipunan where I ordered the Ricotta Pancakes with chocolate chips, chocolate fudge, cream, and chocolate crumb and OMG it was sooo good! I need to visit Tyler's Cafe again so I can enjoy these delicious pancakes.


Another mini-reunion I had was with Ana and Earl at Motto Motto. I think the last time we had a decent conversation was when I was still working at my previous job. I did run into them quite a few times over the years but we never really properly caught up. We finally met up shortly after Christmas at Motto Motto in Serendra. It was great to find out what they were both doing over the last few years. We agreed that we needed to catch up more frequently.

Apart from these reunions with people whom I hadn't seen in a while, there were of course the annual ones. I had dinner with my friends from my first job at Relish Hello Happiness! My friends from our corporate social responsibility group in my previous company had dinner at Stock Market in Uptown Mall and we moved to Scout's Honor for coffee and dessert after. My college friends met up nostalgically at the house of the Jay's parents, which is where we had many parties when we were still in college. I had dinner with another set of college friends in Sentro. The team I last managed in my previous company had our Christmas party at TGI Friday's (a lot of them had moved on to new opportunities). Finally, I had dinner with my high school friends shortly after the New Year at my Michele's house.

As I look back at all these reunions, I can't help but feel very lucky to have made so many incredible connections in my life. Hopefully, I can continue to have these beautiful moments with people who mean a lot to me.

Saturday, January 04, 2020

Happy 2020 and looking back at 2019

Happy New Year!

As usual, before I jump straight into 2020, I will take a look back at the last year. The highlight of my year was getting to visit Seoul and experiencing The Joshua Tree Concert of U2 there. This trip allowed me to see some city sights that I hadn't seen before, visit Nami Island and the Morning of Garden Calm, interview a North Korean defector during our DMZ Spy Tour, and go on an incredible street food tour that allowed me to enjoy a lot of amazing Korean dishes. It was also the first time that I got to travel internationally with one of my best friends Michele and her husband Ferg.

Seoul wasn't the only place I traveled in 2019. I also spent a night my high school friends in Sinagtala Resort in Orani, Bataan. I also revisited Club Balai Isabel during our company outing.

One really cool thing I did last year was perform travel agent duties for my mom who took a trip to Bali. She knew she wanted to go but she didn't know what to do there. I created her itinerary, booked her hotel (which she said was really nice), found her a driver with whom I aligned the itinerary, installed WhatsApp in my mom's phone and set up a WhatsApp group so my mom and I could communicate easily with the driver, rented a Smart Travel WiFi device for her so she would have mobile data when she was in Bali, then drove her to the airport and picked her up when she returned. It was the first time I did all this and my mom's trip turned out great. I was so proud of myself. :)

On the cultural side, I got to see quite a few stage shows. I took my family to see The Phantom of the Opera (it was the third time I got to see it). I took my mom to see Swan Lake by Moscow Ballet La Classique at the New Frontier Theater in Cubao. My mom and I also got to experience Van Gogh Alive in Manila. My family watched the 33rd Sampung Mga Daliri Atbp by the UST Conservatory of Music because my nephew was in the ensemble. Finally, I saw Beautiful: The Carole King Musical with a couple of my friends.

On the more mainstream side, I got to see quite a few movies in the last year. My favorites: Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker, Alone/Together, Godzilla II: King of the Monsters, Knives Out, and Avengers: Endgame.

It wasn't all hunky-dory though. I had a health scare last year that triggered the need for a lifestyle change. I managed to lose about 10 kilos and so far, I've managed to maintain that weight. Hopefully, I can continue eating better and exercising whenever possible. In line with trying to having a better future for me and my family, I also got PRU Life policies for my nephews.

Back to more positive stuff. I managed to read four books last year, including the second Dan Wells trilogy. This is the most I've read in a single year and I'm hoping I can keep on reading this year. My family celebrated my grandmother's 92nd birthday. I played bowling for the first time in years as part of our department bowling tournament and I ended up winning highest men's score and my team was awarded best scoring team. My friends and I also visited Mystery Manila twice to try the Mr. Moriarty room and the Sorcerer's Stone room. I attended a few weddings and I sang in a couple of them. I went to a karaoke bar with friends on six separate occasions, the most times I had been in a karaoke bar in a single year in maybe a decade. I tried several restaurants for the first time, including Raging Bull, Salta!, La Mere Poulard, and Downtown Cafe in Pampanga. And of course, I got to play board games a lot.

2019 proved to be an amazing year that brought with it some rich and memorable experiences. Hopefully, I can continue to have more of them in 2020.

Tuesday, December 31, 2019

U2: The Joshua Tree Tour in Seoul

The unthinkable (for me) happened just before the year closed. I finally got to watch one of my all-time favorite bands, U2, perform live in concert! That this was The Joshua Tree Tour made it even better. After all, The Joshua Tree is arguably their best album and a favorite among their fans (myself included).


I have been listening to their music a whole lot over the decades and a lot of their songs are among the most played in my iPod (yes, I still listen to music on an iPod LOL). They became an even more significant part of my life when my band covered a lot of their songs during our gigging years in the 2000s. So when the Asia and Oceania leg of their tour was announced, I knew I had to watch.


The problem was that the tour originally included only New Zealand, Australia, Singapore, Japan, and South Korea. They only announced the Philippine leg after sales for the shows in the other countries were done. By that time, my friends and I already bought our concert tickets in Seoul and we already booked our flights and hotels. Naturally, we weren't the only ones. Many of their Filipino fans, including a lot of my friends, got tickets to their shows in other countries already. Ah well, I just thought that it was a great excuse to travel with my friends and get to see more of South Korea.


Their concert in Seoul was held at the Gocheok Sky Dome. The show started at around 7:20pm and there was no front act so the moment the lights dimmed and U2 stepped out on stage, the stadium erupted. They played four songs before running through The Joshua Tree album in sequence. My two all-time favorite U2 songs are I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For and Where the Streets Have No Name so when they played these two songs (these are the first two tracks of the album), I got really emotional. I was so moved and overwhelmed that if their concert ended then and there, I would have already been satisfied. That they were just starting made my experience so much better because every song they performed after that felt like a massive bonus to an already amazing evening. (Check out their full setlist here.)



The show of course was legendary. Bono was truly impressive. He is 59 years old already but he was still hitting every note with power and confidence and he sang 24 songs with almost no break. The rest of the band were equally incredible. The Edge, Larry Mullen Jr. and Adam Clayton were all at top of their game. Their music was powerful, evocative, and sensational and the atmosphere they generated was absolutely electric. As if the sublime sound they were generating wasn't enough, the gigantic LCD behind the band provided a visual spectacle that perfectly accompanied and complemented the music, making the overall experience truly magical and unforgettable.


I left Gocheok Sky Dome feeling ecstatic, blessed, and still in a bit of disbelief. I have now seen U2 perform live, something I thought I would never get to do in my lifetime. If not for the wedding I attended on December 11, I would have watched (or at least tried to watch) them again when they performed at the Philippine Arena. Still, I am very thankful that I got to witness one of my favorite musical artists perform live. This is an experience I will truly remember for the rest of my life.

Monday, December 30, 2019

Nami Island and the Garden of Morning Calm

Our fourth and last day in Seoul was spent touring the outskirts of Seoul. We booked a private tour with Sweetravel Korea. I think the standard tour that we took is supposed to include a visit to Nami Island, the Garden of Morning Calm, and Petite France but we adjusted our tour so that instead of seeing Petite France, we would go strawberry-picking instead.

Nami Island

This visit to the strawberry farm was first in our itinerary for the day. We were given a container and we could take as much strawberries as we could fit into it. There were so many ripe fruits that I ended up overfilling my container so I actually had to give some of my strawberries to Mitch and Ferg and I had to eat a couple on the spot. Apparently, I also picked the strawberries incorrectly but it wasn't my fault; we weren't taught the proper way for picking strawberries. Thankfully, one of the ladies in the farm saw me and told me how to do it correctly. Despite my blunders, it was a really cool experience and the strawberries were very delicious!



Our second stop was Nami Island. This has become quite a popular place to visit among Filipino tourists because of the many photo opportunities here, especially during fall. It is actually in the middle of the Han River and to visit it, you have to take a short ferry ride.

Welcome to Nami Island

It was December when we were there so it wasn't fall anymore. As such, we missed out on the photo op in the area lined by Gingko Biloba trees (this area looks beautiful during the fall). I still took a lot of photos, and had a lot of photos of myself taken, at the Metasequoia Lane. According to a sign in this area, this lane "began with seedlings from Seoul National University's School of Agriculture in 1977. First made famous as a setting for some of the most romantic scenes in Winter Sonata, it has now become one of the most visited spots on the island."

Metasequoia Lane

We then wandered around the rest of island to enjoy more of its beautiful scenery.


It seems that most other tourists don't venture much beyond the more popular photo op areas because there are a lot of other spots on the island that are quite isolated and serene.


I mentioned how the Metasequoia Lane was made popular by the Korean drama Winter Sonata. There's actually another spot on the island where another scene from this show was taken: the leads were building snowmen on a table. While I am not familiar with this show, I still decided to take a photo of it myself. :)

This is where a scene from Winter Sonata was taken.

After our afternoon stroll, we decided to take a break and have some coffee and pastries at a cafe on the island. I noticed that there was a really nice deck outside where you can view the Han river. Naturally, I couldn't pass up on this photo op, especially since there was no one else around. :)


We left Nami in the late afternoon to head to our final stop: the Garden of Morning Calm.

The Garden of Morning Calm

This place becomes very popular during winter because from December to early March, it features the Starlight Garden Festival. During this time, the entire place is decorated with lights, providing its guests with an incredibly intricate and dazzling display of color and illumination at night.

The garden showcases many awesome displays at night during the Starlight Garden Festival

There were a handful of vibrant tunnels that made for great photo ops.


The garden is actually a lot larger than we all initially thought. There are dozens of brilliant, interesting, and instagrammable sections throughout the grounds.


My favorite section though is this gloriously jaw-dropping sea/ocean scene.


We spent a couple of hours walking through the Garden of Morning Calm before heading back to our hotel. This was our last day in Korea and it was a good way to end our trip. That said, there is one more part of this trip that I still haven't written about: the U2 Joshua Tree Tour concert in Seoul.

Sunday, December 29, 2019

DMZ Spy Tour

We booked a DMZ Spy Tour because my friend Mitch really wanted to go to the Korean Demilitarized Zone (DMZ) which is the ceasefire area between North and South Korea. However, shortly before our trip, we were told that we wouldn't be able to go to the DMZ because of swine flu concerns (presumably on the North Korean side). The tour company proposed some changes to the itinerary which we were ok with so we proceeded with the modified tour.

Wall of photos and memories at the My Town exhibit in the Odusan Unification Tower

Our first stop was Bugaksan Mountain. Our tour indicated that this was the infiltration path of North Korean Spy Commandos. We started out at the Bugak Palgakjeong Pavilion or the Bugak Skyway Octagonal Pavilion...

Bugak Skyway Octagonal Pavilion

...before going on a bit of a casual stroll/hike. We walked along a path that allowed us to take in some panoramic views of Seoul, especially at the Bugaksan Mountain Sky Observatory. (It actually started snowing ever so slightly while we were here; you can probably see a bit of the snow if you zoom into the following picture).

Bugakgsan Mountain Sky Observatory, with a little snowfall :)

Our next stop was the Odusan Unification Tower. This observatory gives visitors a glimpse of the separation of North and South Korea and the impact that this division has had and continues to have on all Koreans.

Odusan Unification Tower

The tower is located at the at the South Korean border, where the Han and the Imjin Rivers meet. There are many telescopes around the tower that allow visitors to look across the border to North Korea.


Possibly the most moving exhibit in the tower is called My Town, which shares photos and memories of families separated by the Korean war. It was heartbreaking to see pictures of these families, knowing that some of them were never, or will never be, reunited during their lifetimes.

Photos of families who were separated by the Korean War :(

After visiting the Odusan Unification Tower, we then headed to Imjingak Peace Park (also called Imjingak Resort) which also commemorates the Korean War. According to wikipedia, it was built to console Koreans who have been separated from their loved ones due to the division of Korea. One wall in the park is filled with ribbons that have messages of hope and prayers for unification.

Imjingak Peace Park

Visitors can also see a section of the Gyeongui Train Line which was destroyed during the Korean War.

Gyeongui Train Line

After lunch, we headed to a coffee shop at the War Memorial Museum Wedding Hall for what would be one of the highlights of my Korea trip: an interview with a North Korean defector. To be honest, I came into this interview with a lot of trepidation because I wasn't sure I would know what questions to ask or if the questions I thought would be too sensitive or even offensive. But once the interview started, my concerns quickly disappeared. As we listened to our interviewee's stories, we all wanted to learn and understand more and everyone in our group asked multiple questions. What I heard during this interview could fill a blog post or two by itself, but it was moving, humbling, and sobering to discover why our interviewee decided to defect, how he did it, the challenges he faced in crossing the border and later in bringing his family with him, and financially supporting his other loved ones who are still north of the border. Even as I write this, I am moved when I recall the tremendous difficulty that our interviewee had to endure and the fear he had for his life which led him to leave North Korea. One of the most heartbreaking things he said was after Kim Jong Il began his rule in 1994, North Korea experienced a massive famine that resulted in hundreds of thousands of deaths due to starvation. He even recounted seeing dead bodies piling up on the streets. :( I can't even begin to wrap my head around that.

After the interview, our guide took us to the War Memorial of Korea. This museum is massive, with exhibits spread across three floors of the museum. Due to the limited time we had, we skipped the first floor, which features historical exhibits prior to the North Korean invasion in 1950. We headed immediately to the second floor which holds the Korean War exhibits.

War Memorial of Korea

We then made our way to the third floor which displays items that have been donated to the museum. The exhibits here showcase the nations and troops who fought to restore peace. There was a section the featured the Philippines. An estimated 7,420 Filipinos fought in the Korean War, with 113 being killed in action and 229 more being wounded.

Tribute to the Philippines

This was the last stop of our tour. The day was absolutely jam-packed but it was very enriching and powerful. I highly recommend this to anyone who visits Seoul. Our tour was run by Kevin Hwang. I believe my friend Mitch booked him through With Locals. There are a couple of sites that provide Kevin's contact info (such as this and this) so if you are interested in booking this same tour or taking the proper DMZ Spy Tour (when there is no restriction to enter the DMZ), check out these sites so you can contact Kevin.